by LoriAnne Reeves | Aug 3, 2026 | Language Awareness, Pattern Awareness, Relational Intelligence
You Thought You Had a Communication Problem “Sometimes the conversation that hurts the most isn’t revealing what’s wrong today. It’s revealing the relational pattern that’s been quietly organizing your relationship for years.” One of the...
by LoriAnne Reeves | Jul 27, 2026 | Pattern Awareness
Why the Same Conversation Keeps Finding You “The conversation is not repeating because neither of you is listening. It is repeating because the relational pattern has not changed.” Have you ever found yourself saying: “Didn’t we already settle this?” At first, it...
by LoriAnne Reeves | Jul 20, 2026 | Language Awareness
Why We Keep Having the Same Conversation “It may sound like you’re arguing about different things. But often you’re living inside the same relational pattern wearing different clothes.” Have you ever walked away from a conversation thinking,...
by LoriAnne Reeves | Jul 14, 2026 | Language Awareness
Why Awareness Alone Doesn't Change a Relationship “Understanding your patterns is where transformation begins. Learning how to create new conversations is where relationships begin to change.” One of the most common things I hear people say is: “I know exactly...
by LoriAnne Reeves | Jul 6, 2026 | Relational Patterns
When Competence Becomes a Barrier to Intimacy “The qualities that help us lead, achieve, and care for others can quietly become the very things that keep us from experiencing deeper connection.” There are certain qualities our culture celebrates without hesitation....
