I didn’t set out to create a framework.
I spent more than three decades sitting with people at one of the most vulnerable moments of their lives.
Couples who loved each other…
yet couldn’t stop having the same conversation.
Leaders who could run companies…
yet felt powerless inside their own marriages.
Successful people who had built extraordinary businesses…
while quietly wondering why the relationship that mattered most felt increasingly fragile.
After thousands of conversations, I realized something.
Most people weren’t struggling because they lacked love.
They were struggling because no one had ever taught them how relationships actually work.
That realization became the beginning of what I now call Relational Intelligence™.
What I’ve spent my career studying
For more than thirty years I’ve studied the invisible patterns that shape relationships.
Not simply communication.
Not simply conflict.
But the deeper architecture underneath both.
I’ve worked with couples rebuilding trust.
Professionals navigating major life transitions.
Entrepreneurs trying to grow businesses without losing each other.
Executives balancing leadership with family.
Again and again, I saw the same truth.
As life changes…
relationships must evolve with it.
Why entrepreneurial and professional couples became my focus
After years working with couples, I spent nearly a decade inside the entrepreneurial world, supporting founders, leadership teams, and high-level sales organizations.
I watched ambitious people build remarkable businesses.
I also watched the hidden cost.
Success often created new pressures that no one had prepared couples to navigate.
Power.
Money.
Decision-making.
Leadership.
Changing identities.
Growing at different speeds.
The relationship itself had to become stronger than the demands placed upon it.
That intersection became the natural home for my work.
Why I created Relational Intelligence™
Over time I realized I wasn’t simply helping couples solve problems.
I was observing patterns.
Patterns that appeared regardless of age…
industry…
income…
or personality.
Those observations eventually became Relational Intelligence™—a field devoted to understanding the relational patterns that shape love, leadership, collaboration, and legacy.
It is not simply another communication model.
It is a way of seeing relationships differently.
What makes my work different
Most relationship work begins with the conflict.
I begin with the pattern creating the conflict.
Because when you change the pattern…
the conversations begin to change.
The decisions begin to change.
The relationship begins to change.
My philosophy
I believe relationships are designed.
I believe love alone is rarely enough.
I believe awareness creates possibility.
I believe healthy relationships become one of life’s greatest strategic advantages.
And I believe every couple can learn the relational skills they were never taught.
If this resonates…
Whether you’re navigating leadership, entrepreneurship, marriage, family, or a season of significant change…
I’d love to learn about the life you’re building together.
Credentials & Professional Background
My work draws from over three decades of experience in relationship psychology, leadership development, and business environments.
Education
• B.S. – University of Massachusetts
• M.A. Psychology (Marriage & Family Therapy) – University of Houston
Professional Background
• Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
• Licensed Professional Counselor
• Founder of Relational Intelligence™
• 30+ years working with couples, leaders, and entrepreneurs
• Former Founder & Clinical Director
• Speaker • Author • Advisor
Advanced Training
Advanced training in relationship psychology, leadership development, neuroscience, systems thinking, business dynamics, and transformational change, including work with Terry Real, Esther Perel, The Hendricks Institute, neuroscience psychotherapy, and organizational systems.
